Thursday, September 30, 2010

Day 16

Day 16 – About the shows that you follow

Okay, so I actually follow lot's of TV shows so I'll try and talk about them all.

F.R.I.E.N.D.S: This is a TV show that no longer airs but was absolutely amazing an d loved by millions. It is about 6 friends that live in New York and just like hilariously funny lives. The 6 main characters are Monica Geller(Courteny Cox), Phoebe Buffay(Lisa Kudrow), Rachel Greene (Jennifer Aniston), Chandler Bing (Matthew Perry), Ross Geller (David Schwimmer) and Joey Tribianni (Matt LeBlanc). It has 10 seasons. It is my all time favourite show, I watch it ALL the time, at breakfast, when I'm on the computer, at lunch, when my friends come over (lol at the pun) and also when I'm terribly sad it makes me feel so much better. I also love that all the characters have their own distinct personality and often most of the issues are just normal but turn funny.

CSI: Miami: This is my second favourite TV show and airs on CBS. It is a spinoff from CSI: Crime Scene Investigation. It is a drama series about the procedure of being a crime scene investigator. The main characters are: Horatio Caine (David Caruso), Calleigh Duquesne (Emily Procter), Eric Delko (Adam Rodriguez), Ryan Wolfe (Jonathan Togo), Frank Tripp (Rex Linn), Alexx Woods (Khandi Alexander), Natalia Boa Vista (Eva LaRue). They're the main team although people have come and go such as Tim Speedle (Rory Cochrane), Yelina Salas (Sofia Milos), Jesse Cardoza (Eddie Cibrian), Walter Simmons (Omar Benson Miller) and many others. There have been 8 completed seasons and season 9 starts with a cliffhanger this Sunday in America. I just love this show so much, it always catches my attention and I love all the characters.

The minor shows in my head (hehe):
The Mentalist: This is also a crime show about Patrick Jane (Simon Baker) and his team who all try to solve homicides in California, mainly near Sacramento. There have been 2 seasons.

Hellcats: A new drama series on CW in the USA and is fast tracked to Go! in Australia only a week behind. There have only been 4 episodes so far but this show is really interesting. It is about a new law student at college, Marti (Aly Michalka) that has her scholarship denied and so she joins the cheerleaders to earn a Cheerleading scholarship.

Glee: This new show has already taken the world by storm. A musical style drama showcases the Glee Club trying to reach nationals and also climb up the social ladder. Everyone in the Glee club is different and have individual characters, there is no main character that's good always but during the start of the first season, it was surrounded a bit around the character of Rachel Berry (Lea Michele). The second season has recently started.

House: I haven't watched much of this show recently but I have always loved House's wit. This show is about Gregory House (Hugh Laurie) and his team as they take on weird and wacky cases. There have been 6 seasons and season 7 has already started with a few episodes in already.

The Hills: A reality drama that surrounds around Lauren Conrad and her friends in Beverly Hills but she leaves halfway through season 5 and from then on it surrounds around ex Laguna Beach star, Kristen Cavallari. I'm not a big fan of Kristen so I'm not that into it anymore. I think season 6 is the last season.

Pretty Little Liars: A new drama series on ABC Family in America about 4 girls that lost their best friend but she seems to mysteriously return knowing all their secrets. There has only been 1 season so far.

I think that's it. Woah, that's alot, what can I say? I love TV (:

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Day 15

Day 15 – Excerpt from a recent conversation

Well, since I haven't had much social stuff happen recently so here is an excerpt of me talking to the TV, the first time I ever watched (500) Days of Summer.

Amy: NOOOOOO!!! Summer why? You are so stupid! Go with Tom!
Summer (in the film): I just-I just woke up one day and knew. What I was never sure of with you.
Tom (in the film): *sad face*

But now I love this movie, I think it's a gorgeous story but I love how the ending is actually real and not some happy soppy love story ending. (No offense intended, I love love stories too (: )

Day 13 & 14

Day 13 – To the last person you kissed

Sorry but I've never kissed anyone before. So I'm gonna mix this with Day 14.

Day 14 – A picture of your room

That's not my full room but it's one side (:

Day 12

Day 12 – Fifteen interesting facts about another person

1. I've known her since year 7
2. She can make clothes. Awesome huh?!
3. She has a dog called Luna.
4. She has been playing the piano since year 2.
5. She has been playing the violin since year 7.
6. Both our father's have the same name.
7. Both our father's have the same age.
8. Some people say that Cassie looks like me.
9. She was born in New Zealand.
10. We have gone to Photoplus many times together.
11. She has a tumblr.
12. She has a fashion blog on blogspot.
13. She is a smarty pants.
14. She has no siblings.
15. She is uber pretty. (:

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Oh no!

Sorry, I accidentally posted day 13 & 14 and forgot to queue it. Sorry, day 12 will be coming to you tomorrow. And if you wanna look at my other blog, click here.
And I’m mentally dating Joseph Gordon-Levitt but having a wild affair with Jake Gyllenhaal. And then I dump them both for Jonathan Togo. ♥ Hehe.

Day 10 & 11

Day 10 – A guilty pleasure

Let me think, I have so many guilty pleasures. My main one will probably be ice cream <3
But I also often binge watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S and gawking at pictures of Jon, Jake & Joseph. I'm not sure if you will get the last bit. If you read my tumblr, then possibly. :)

I will also do Day 11 cuz I forgot yesterday about the days thing.
Day 11 – What’s in your bag

I actually have a bag today cuz I'm not home, but this isn't what's usually in my bag but anyway. Let's see:
  • iPod nano
  • iTouch
  • Pencil case
  • Lip balm
  • Mobile
  • Bubble Boy DVD
  • (500) Days of Summer DVD
  • Rebecca (the book)
  • My diary
  • CSI: Miami Season 1
  • iPod cord
  • Laptop charger cord
  • The Bacchae
  • 3 Magazines
  • Latin books

Monday, September 27, 2010

Times Square Art

Art - Typo
Singlet - Insight @ Planet Surf
Cardigan - H & M
Belt - Country Road
Jeans - Bardot

This made my day.

Pack of 30 toilet paper rolls. :D

My new dress

Dress - The Duchess


5 Famous People to Invite to Your Dream Dinner Party, Dead or Alive.

1. Jonathan Togo
2. Joseph Gordon-Levitt
3. Jake Gyllenhaal
4. Alice Liddell/Emily Procter
5. Stan Marsh from South Park

5 Bands/Musicians I’ve been Listening to A lot Lately.

1. 3OH!3
2. Holiday Parade
3. All Time Low
4. 30 Seconds to Mars
5. Amy Meredith

5 Things I’m addicted to.

1. Tumblr
2. CSI: Miami
3. F.R.I.E.N.D.S
4. Lemon, lime & bitters
5. Music

5 Biggest Celebrity Crushes.

1. Jonathan Togo
2. Joseph Gordon-Levitt
3. Jake Gyllenhaal
4. Fernando Verdasco
5. Walter Perez

5 Songs I Can’t Stop Listening to at the Moment.

1. Just The Way You Are - Bruno Mars
2. Empire State of Mind (Part 2) - Alicia Keys
3. We Are Young - 3OH!3
4. Dynamite/Love The Way You Lie/Teenage Dream MASHUP - Sam Tsui
5. Closer to the Edge - 30 Seconds to Mars

5 Favorite T.V Shows

1. F.R.I.E.N.D.S
2. CSI: Miami
3. Hellcats
4. South Park
5. Burn Notice

5 Your Dream Future: 1 Job/2 City/3 Car/4 Spouse/5 Pet.

1. Something to do with music other than singer/musician
2. Melbourne/New York
3. Lamborgini
4. Jonathan Togo/Joseph Gordon-Levitt
5. Lizard

5 Things that always cheer me up.

1. Inspirational pictures
2. F.R.I.E.N.D.S
3. Music
4. Movies
5. My mummy <3

Top 5 People I Want to Punch in the Face.

1. A girl who thinks the world revolves around her
2. Miley Cyrus to give her a reality check
3. Lindsay Lohan
4. You
5. A girl who annoys the crap out of me

5 Favorite Actors/Actresses.

1. Jonathan Togo
2. Joseph Gordon-Levitt
3. Jake Gyllenhaal
4. Emily Procter
5. Cast of F.R.I.E.N.D.S

5 Movies You Have Seen More Than Three Times.

1. Percy Jackson & the Lightning Thief
2. She's the Man
3. Wild Child
4. Angus, Thongs & Perfect Snogging
5. Transformers

The alphabet and me

A - Age: 14
B - Bed size: double
C - Chore you hate: dusting
D - Dog’s name: n/a
E - Essential start your day items: breakfast, toothpaste & toothbrush
F - Favorite colour: red
G - Gold or Silver: gold
H - Height: 165cm
I - Instruments you play: violin
J - Job title: student
K - Kids: n/a
L - Living Arrangements: with my parents
M - Mother’s name: Helen
N - Nicknames: n/a
O - Overnight hospital stay other than birth: food poisoning
P - Pet Peeve: people that think the world revolves around them
Q - Quote from a movie: “If Tom had learned anything... it was that you can't ascribe great cosmic significance to a simple earthly event. Coincidence, that's all anything ever is, nothing more than coincidence... Tom had finally learned, there are no miracles. There's no such thing as fate, nothing is meant to be. He knew, he was sure of it now. "
R - Right or left handed: right
S - Siblings: n/a
T - Time you wake up: 7:30 during the school term, 8-11 on holidays
U - Underwear: bonds, black
V - Vegetable you dislike: bitter melon & eggplant
W - Workout style: hockey/team sports
X - X-rays you’ve had: dont remember
Y - Yesterday’s best moment: feeeling like i didn't have to do anything
Z - Zoo favorite: monkeys

Zooey Deschanel and Joseph Gordon-Levitt - Why Do You Let Me Stay Here?

Friday, September 24, 2010

Day 9

Day 09 - Worst public incident

There have been many embarrassing moments in my life that were public, I can't remember the most or them all but I do remember having my dad embarrass me, accidentally keeping the blinds up when looking at my c-walking neighbour, LOLOL, talking too loud near people about stupid stuff, having to sing in front of all the girls from all campuses at year 7 camp, singing to this skateboarding kid and making him fall (I'm so sorry), and of course tripping over a couple of times everyday, im such a klutz. Lol. Oh yeah, and I remember something, that I significantly told olivia not to tell anyone, but I guess it's too late now, I walked into a wall. How stupid.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

"Just The Way You Are" - Bruno Mars

Just The Way You Are, Bruno Mars Cover - Sam Tsui

This song made my budgies tweet :)
And Sam is so cute <3

I don’t own this video.

Day 8

Day 08 – Favorite outfit

Now, I do not have a specific favourite outfit because I don't like wearing the same thing over and over again, and also I can't decide, so I will show you a picture of some of the clothes I wear and like, they are in my wardrobe. :)

Now I shall describe. Above the clothes which you can't see are all my bags, scarfs, hats and purses. Below my clothes which you also can't see are my big bags, teddies (you can see the top of my green mario mushroom), slippers, and drawing stuff which I don't use, just to clarify, I am not an artist, I just have that stuff.

And statistics/numbers of the clothes in my wardrobe? Well, I have 33 T-shirts, 39 singlets, 3 vests, 6 skirts, 17 dresses and 11 cardigans (excluding school uniform). I also have hoodies, shorts, pajamas, jumpers and etc in my drawers.

P.S. Sorry that I missed yesterday, but I've been quite busy doing nothing, and homework so some days I might do tons and some days I might skip, so I'm just warning you, there might be a lot of skipping from here on because I need to save my internet usage :(, and I have exams soon, but I will try my best. (:

New Perspective

Jumper - Country Road
Shorts - Rusty @ Planet Surf
Flower bag - Mindil Beach Market, Darwin
Striped bag - Sportsgirl

Listening to: New Perspective - Panic! At The Disco

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Cool shirts

Cookie monster shirt - Jay Jays
Dr Seuss shirt - Jay Jays

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

'Pure Nerd' Oh god.

74 % Nerd, 39% Geek, 30% Dork

For The Record:

A Nerd is someone who is passionate about learning/being smart/academia.
A Geek is someone who is passionate about some particular area or subject, often an obscure or difficult one.
A Dork is someone who has difficulty with common social expectations/interactions.
You scored better than half in Nerd, earning you the title of: Pure Nerd.

The times, they are a-changing. It used to be that being exceptionally smart led to being unpopular, which would ultimately lead to picking up all of the traits and tendences associated with the "dork." No-longer. Being smart isn't as socially crippling as it once was, and even more so as you get older: eventually being a Pure Nerd will likely be replaced with the following label: Purely Successful.


take the test

Day 7

Day 07 – About your pet

I have two budgies called Lachie and Jackie and I think they are some of the cutest things in the world. I love the softness of their feathers, the colour and their cute little beaks and tiny round eyes. I love how they chirp all day, and especially when they sing with me when I'm playing violin. I love them so much. <3

Tickets & Passports

Alice in Wonderland necklace - Jay Jays
Top - Jay Jays
Shorts - Elwood

Listening to: Tickets & Passports - Holiday Parade

Monday, September 20, 2010

One of my favourite photos

This is one of my favourite photos of two amazing and stunning gals. I found this on tumblr and on the left is Whitney Port with the cutest headband ever and on the right is Lauren Conrad.

Day 6

Day 06 – Item you have owned the longest

My blanket. My mum made it for me before I was born.

Oh no! Sorry, I posted this in a day advance and now I can't take it back. Oh well, sorry. :(

All my hopes, passions and ambitions have died out and now it's too late.

All I've ever wanted to do and be are all gone. Dancer, singer, skateboarder, writer, hockey player, musician, some things I am but it's just not something I can pursue. I'm too far gone, stuck in a rut, but I've worked too hard to throw it all away. I'm that kind of girl you all know, the one that is an over achiever, I have a way with numbers, words, science, languages, but they're not my passions, working this hard. I don't even know what I want to be when I grow up, I don't even know who I am now and I'm so worried about the future. I'm really scared about not being happy and successful, but what if I come back to the reunion, and I'm rich and successful. But I'm not happy. This was never how far I wanted to go, what I wanted to do, it's just too deep. But now it's too late to turn around, I've worked too hard to throw it all away and now I have to deal with it. All my ambitions, things I've always wanted to do, are now out the window. I am too far in to get out now. I never even got to try some of them, my passions, and see how far I could go. I'm gonna grow up and be good, but will I be happy? No, I don't think so.

Today's outfit

Flower clip - Diva
Necklace - Diva
Singlet - Just Jeans
Skirt - Dotti
Ring - Equip
Both pink & green bracelets - Equip
Charm bracelet - Pandora

Day 5

I've skipped to day 5 because day 4 was about tumblr.

Day 05 – A moment of thrill

Cyclone and the Claw in Dreamworld, Gold Coast.

Sunday, September 19, 2010

My favourite dress

My favourite dress.
Dress - Forever New

Day 3

Day 03 – A bad picture of yourself

I took the pictue off because it was so horrible. I left it on for a day but now it's gone. Sorry. (;

Day 2

Sorry that this is late by a couple of days. But anyway.

Day 02 – Ten interesting facts about yourself

1. I am a daydreamer.
2. I've been at my current school for 11 years and counting.
3. I’ve been skiing every year since year 2 and I don’t think I’m very good.
4. When I was little I had an imaginary friend called Daisy.
5. I feel most inspired at night.
6. I wish I could skateboard, dance and play guitar.
7. Sometimes I play boardgames alone because I don’t have any siblings and I actually find it fun.
8. I buy my music even though all my friends download.
9. .I LOVE TV shows and I have all seasons of CSI: Miami, F.R.I.E.N.D.S, Lizzie McGuire & Totally Spies (don't watch that anymore), the Hills, So Little Time & House.
10. I’m actually quite a happy person although there have been times when I've been down.

Thursday, September 16, 2010

I Frigging Love Markets

So, I went to the Mindil Beach Market in Darwin a couple of weeks ago on a school trip and I got this awesome stuff. I got the pink flower ring for free, three bracelets/anklets for 3 for $10, the cat keyring for $8 and the small bag, that I love TONS for $10. How awesome?!

Listening to: L490 - 30 Seconds to Mars

Day 1

Hello, so, one of my friends thought I should do all the days and I thought that's pretty good too, so why not?

Day 1 - About your name

My name is Amy and I was named after my mother’s favourite author, Amy Tan and she wrote the book the Joy Luck Club. Amy means beloved in French and Latin. My middle name, Wenting is my Chinese name. My grandfather made it and Wen can mean smart and Ting can mean beautiful. And AWH, my tumblr name, is my initials. :)

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

You choose :)

Ima do another one of those days things, but this time I will give a HUGE list of options, and I want you to tell me which ones to do, simply by telling me the answers or if you want me to do the whole list.

Just tell my by facebook if you know me or ask me on my tumblr or email me or tell me on msn if you really know me. (:

I know some of the things are related to tumblr so you can just disregard those. So here's the list:

Day 01 – About your name
Day 02 – Ten interesting facts about yourself
Day 03 – A bad picture of yourself
Day 04 – Screenshot of your tumblr crushes
Day 05 – A moment of thrill
Day 06 – Item you have owned the longest
Day 07 – About your pet
Day 08 – Favorite outfit
Day 09 – Worst public incident
Day 10 – A guilty pleasure
Day 11 – What’s in your bag
Day 12 – Fifteen interesting facts about another person
Day 13 – To the last person you kissed
Day 14 – A picture of your room
Day 15 – Excerpt from a recent conversation
Day 16 – About the shows that you follow
Day 17 – Your take on drugs and alcohol
Day 18 – To the last person you saw cry
Day 19 – A movie review
Day 20 – An embarrassing moment
Day 21 – Favorite smells
Day 22 – Your baby picture
Day 23 – Another terrible public incident
Day 24 – To the strongest person you know
Day 25 – A picture of yourself from a year ago
Day 26 – Something you need
Day 27 – A song attached with memories
Day 28 – Clip from your favorite movie
Day 29 – A good picture of yourself
Day 30 – Have someone write something about you

Day 31 — Your favorite song
Day 32 — Your favorite movie
Day 33 — Your favorite television program
Day 34 — Your favorite book
Day 35 — Your favorite quote
Day 36 — Whatever tickles your fancy
Day 37 — A photo that makes you happy
Day 38 — A photo that makes you angry/sad
Day 39 — A photo you took
Day 40 — A photo of you taken over ten years ago
Day 41 — A photo of you taken recently
Day 42 — Whatever tickles your fancy
Day 43 — A fictional book
Day 44 — A non-fictional book
Day 45 — A fanfic
Day 46 — A song that makes you cry (or nearly)
Day 47 — An art piece (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.)
Day 48 — Whatever tickles your fancy
Day 49 — A talent of yours
Day 50 — A hobby of yours
Day 51 — A recipe
Day 52 — A website
Day 53 — A YouTube video
Day 54 — Whatever tickles your fancy
Day 55 — Your day, in great detail
Day 56 — Your week, in great detail
Day 57 — This month, in great detail
Day 58 — This year, in great detail
Day 59 — Hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 days
Day 60 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Too many thoughts for a title.

I'm pretty confused about who I am but of course, I guess that's a given at this age. So throughout my journey of figuring everything out, this is a really weird sort of speal/post about all my trials and tributes with my friends and so I wanna thank and say sorry to them. I'm not naming names, but if you think it's you, then it most likely is. But also if you think it isn't you, it could possibly be you, and then there are some of you who are totally oblivious.

To all who I have ever betrayed in my entire life, I'm sorry. I swear, I didn't mean any serious harm. There may have been occasional times when I felt a bit bitchy but a lot of the times this year have been accidents and confusion in my head, caused with me trying to find myself.

To _________ & ________,
You probably don't realise but I feel like I'm losing both of you. One of you never reads my blogs, no matter how many times I remind you and the other one is probably clueless. One of you is growing up a lot and I feel like you've made a 'better' friend than me. The other one, is still close to me outside of school, but in school you always seem distracted by other people, not just your bf, and I feel like you don't have time for me anymore. It hurts me so much everytime I see you with them because I feel like you just forget about me. I know this sounds stupid and selfish, but it hurts and the realistic part of me feels like we're slowly drifting apart.

To ________
You really hurt me, I don't know if I can trust you anymore. We use to be such great friends but you're growing up so fast. I don't have any other words for you because I've run out.

To ________
I don't know what happened. Were you even my friend? We dont even acknowledge eachother anymore. Now I really should give up on thoughts about you, but I hate having things unresolved. I seriously are getting sick of this issue, you probably never cared about me in the first place and will never read this or anything I write. It's all too stupid.

To ________
We had an amazing time together for those many days faraway, but it feels like they're all behind us now. It's weird. And I don't know if you care or not, but I still remember everything you've ever told me, especially the nice things. No one has ever said them to me and it made all my days. I really miss those times and I don't think it will ever be the same again.

I still don't know what's going on in my mind, there are mixed emotions everywhere and I always change my mind. It's all a big dizzy thing but I'm having fun at the same time. I'm always confused and easily manipulated. I get confused easily 'not in that way lol' (most peops probably dont understand this) and that causes me do stupid things and make silly mistakes that I always regret in the end. But yeah, these are some of the deep feelings inside me, and words just can't explain them enough, but I gave it my best shot.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Love The Way You Lie - MASHUP (free mp3!)

This is all I've got to say.

I love this owl necklace. And that's all I've got to say. (:

Owl necklace - Diva
Tank top - Mooks
Skirt - Jay Jays
Cardigan - Country Road

Listening to:
Vox Populi - 30 Seconds To Mars

Day Ten


Day Ten: One confession.

1. I'm still afraid of the dark.
Even though I still try to convince myself that I’m not.

I don’t know why but I think pretending to not be afraid will make me not afraid, even though its not working, I still do it. I don’t know how I am still this way or why I am like this, but the dark just makes my imagination go wild, and not in a good way. I tell myself that there is nothing there and that I’m not afraid anymore because I want to believe that I’m not and I don’t want to seem weird in front of my friends, anymore than I already am. Will staying in the dark alone overcome this fear? Because it hasn’t helped me in the past. Is there something wrong with me?

I just want someone to help me through this, to stay with me in the dark.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Day Nine

Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.

:) I'm actually quite content and happy with my life right now. It feels balanced, its nice.
:D Right now actually feels like the best time of my life.

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Something sweet

Whenever I feel like it, I shall post something sweet. Found this on tumblr and I thought it was amazing. ♥ I don't own rights for it by the way.

Day Eight

Day Eight: Three turn ons.

1. Musician.
2. Cute eyes.
3. Intelligence.
Bonus: 4. Good style.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Day Seven

Day Seven: Four turn offs.

1. Immaturity.
2. Not caring.
3. Poor hygiene.
4. Being a jerk.

Friday, September 10, 2010

Day Six

Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)

1. Mum
2. Dad
3. Katie
4. Amanda
5. Geoffrey

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Day Five

Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.

1. Caring about boys.
2. Caring about what people thought of me.
3. Acting differently around certain people.
4. Being afraid to go to the canteen (even though I still am).
5. Buying those two pattern t-shirts from Jay Jays.
6. Procrastinating.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Day Four

Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.

1. Shit, I'm hungry.
2. I feel like watching CSI: Miami.
3. Oh no, more homework that I must do.
4. That conversation today cracked me up.
5. I wonder what's for dinner.
6. Why am I so ugly?
7. You guys are just awesome! :D

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Day Three

Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.

1. Be nice to me.
2. Take the initiative to talk to me.
3. Look after me.
4. Be yourself.
5. The occasional romantic thing.
6. Actually think I'm something when giving a compliment, don't just say it.
7. Don't be too dramatic, lead a balanced life and don't come on too strong.
8. Be my friend who is there for me when I need you.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Day Two

Day Two: Nine things about yourself.

1. I am a daydreamer.
2. I play the violin.
3. I play hockey.
4. I like skiing.
5. I like food.
6. AWH are my initials.
7. I have two budgies.
8. I actually enjoy latin somtimes.
9. Nobody knows anything about me really.

Friday, September 3, 2010

Day One

Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.

1. To Katelyn: Who won the Saints vs Geelong game?
2. To Hayley: We need to plan the Melbourne Show outing.
3. To Allan: How was camp?
4. To Geoff: Whatever happened to us?
5. To Jonathan Togo: You are just plain awesome.
6. To Emily Procter: You are an amazing actress.
7. To Hannah: Are you coming to volunteering tomorrow?
8. To Kevin: Good luck on your exams.
9. To Jordan: Were you ever my friend?
10. To Mum: I love you. :D (But she's asleep)

Ten days

Ima do this and looks kinda fun. Although I might not have post everyday, if I don't get a chance. But yeah, I'll try my best.

Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.

Day Two: Nine things about yourself.

Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.

Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.

Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.

Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)

Day Seven: Four turn offs.

Day Eight: Three turn ons.

Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.

Day Ten: One confession.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Is love just infatuation or is it real?

Could love possibly be just infatuation? It always seems so excessive and impulsive, like something acting with thought.

I’ve always thought that even Romeo and Juliet may just be infatuation. And I know this is a long shot so please don’t get all upset but I always thought that they just rushed into things too much. It’s was all too quick and it felt like the head over heels type of thing. It didn’t seem rational.

I think real love is being in a loving relationship. You can never have too much, you always need a balance of everything, like in food nutrition. As quoted in All Time Low’s song Too Much:

“We were so smothered in love, we didn’t have a chance to come up for air. What a waste. Where did our time go? Where did our minds go? I don’t know. … Too much of anything is too much. Too much love can be too much. We had too much time, too much us and we fought like tomorrow was promised.”

As well as Shia LaBeouf:

“There’s a difference between being in love and being in a loving relationship. ‘In love’ is infatuation. ‘Love’ is when that love dies down and you’re just there.”

Often, the best relationships are the one’s between friends. There is never too much love, it’s never too intense, but there is love between two people that care a lot for each other. It may not be as passionate although they must be more than just friends for it to work, but often these are the most successful situations.

This is shown in Valentine’s Day, now I don’t remember the names but Ashton Kutcher’s character’s friend’s marriage works because the couple started out as friends. He does mention this in the film.

I also believe that even though tons of people my age (I’m 14 by the way) have boyfriends and say they’re in love and stuff but I don’t believe that that is fully possible at this age, I believe that most relationships at this age are based on infatuations and that’s why most end pretty quickly. But some that don’t end are maybe just long infatuations but I don’t believe that they are in proper relationships.

Proper relationships require one big thing that isn’t much of an issue to teenagers, and that’s commitment. Commitment is really important in ‘grown up’ relationships and people often breakup because of this but at our age, that’s not a big issue. For teens it’s just having a couple that like each other and that’s about it. Sometimes there might be a bit more but as my mum said:

“At this age, boyfriends are just like more than friends.”

I know there are people that just hook up and that’s also infatuation, all those people want is some fun with some guys you aren’t close too.

And I’m also not trying to say that couples always have to start out as friends, sometimes for some people that isn’t the best option, some people who are too close as friends may occasionally have something more, and try it out but sometimes it doesn’t work because they are just too close as friends. This has actually happen before to myself.

I’m sorry if this whole thing bored you, it was just an anecdote of my thoughts that make me question stuff. If you don’t like it then that’s not my problem, unfollow if you want, but this is me.

But I do have no intention in offending anyone and this post wasn't directed at anyone particular.

This whole post about love was totally random but I have always wondered about this. And I know TONS of people will have totally different opinions to me, and I would love to hear them.

Now, I know tons of people who read this don't have blogger connect with my via my facebook or msn (if you're my friend IRL) or tell me on my ask page on my tumblr.